My Son. Those words sounded foreign to me when I said them for the first time seventeen years ago. Today they are spoken with boastful pride and familiarity. I think back a year ago as you entered your sixteenth year with tenacity and curiosity, and I reflected on the many ups and downs this badge-of-honour age brought you. You added a driving licence to your boat and PADI skills repertoire; started your first job; found your first “serious” relationship; discovered a passion for high-end fashion and honed your natural entrepreneur mindset to win the odds in the resale market craze.
In contrast, you endured the pain of giving your heart to someone who didn’t cherish it; conflicted by unfathomable actions of people you used to call family; suffered through the loss of a pet and you were welcomed into a ring of the “popular kids” that left you searching for authenticity in a myriad of plastic and questioning your true worth on a path that felt more lonely than ever before.
My hope is that these experiences do not harden you. My hope is that you see these bumps in the road as valuable lessons that shape you and bring you confidence to clearly see the path you were meant for.
This path my son, will have great landmarks. It will show you the beauty in people and it will reveal the ugliness in people who want to cast a shadow in your happiness. My hope is that you will not only know the difference to stay on the path you were meant for but to also know that I will always be your passenger in life to guide you when you need it. I will bear your burdens and carry you when you feel the hills and valleys on your path are too hard. You will meet many people on your path who will love you – in fact, you haven’t even met some of them yet! Always surround yourself by those people. Keep your heart open but be protective of it.
Never underestimate your worth – those who challenge it are those that are afraid or jealous of it. You were not meant to be a follower. You were meant to lead others and they will chase your light.
Happy 17th birthday my son. I treasure September 1st every year because it is a reminder of the first day I had the honour of giving you my heart and the first day I became a passenger (and guide when you need it) in this adventure we call life.